Hi.
Marlin:
How do you know that nothing bad won't happen?
Dory:
I don't.
-Finding
Nemo
People
today are scared of doing anything on the basis that something will
happen. In
Buddhism that is called Karma, the law of cause and effect.
When
you do something, something will happen.
Period.
Doesn't
say whether it will be good or bad, just that when you do something,
something happens.
It
is an misconception that karma is about good or bad.
And,
who's to say which is what?
There
is an Buddhist story about a man and his son who loses their horses,
horse comes back with more horses, the breaks his leg asf. And all
through the story the man won't state if it is good or bad when
people confront him with what happened.
And for a good reason.
If
we drop this notion of good and bad and just see that something
happens, period, we would be able to live an fuller life not going
around worrying about the consequences of living.
One
of my friends was really scared of doing new things.
And
when she got a boyfriend, a new problem arose, Sex.
It
was so scary and got to be such a big problem for her that she was
ready to end it all.
Luckily
the boyfriend understood the predicament and through a loving
communication, they were able to, together, solve the issue.
Not
only did it solve that issue, but it untied a number of other knots
in her life, enabling her to live an much more full life in all
aspects.
Sometimes
it's good when bad things happen..
Thank
you for your practice.
Mtfbwy
Fugen